YOU ARE NOT YOUR Depression Anxiety Stress |
Millions struggle with depression, feeling trapped in a cycle of hopelessness, medication, and frustration.
But what if there was another way?
In Depression is NOT Your Destiny, Brett Coleman shares his personal journey of overcoming treatment-resistant depression, severe anxiety, PTSD, and suicidal ideation—without relying on endless therapy or medication.
Depression is NOT Your Destiny
What You’ll Discover Inside This Book
This book is more than just inspiration; it’s a practical, and personal story sharing a step-by-step blueprint to break free from mental suffering and reclaim your life.
Through a combination of mindset shifts, proven strategies, and unconventional yet effective methods, my intention is to empower readers to take control of their emotions, challenge any limiting beliefs, and rewire their minds for lasting transformation.
What You’ll Learn:

Why traditional treatments often miss the mark — and what actually leads to freedom
Learn how the mental health industry, while well-meaning, can trap people in a cycle of passive treatment — and how to escape it with empowered action.

How to reprogram your subconscious mind for happiness, peace, and unshakable self-worth
Discover techniques rooted in neuroscience that help you overwrite deep-seated beliefs and emotional patterns that are holding you back.

Mental conditioning tools to regain control in moments of emotional chaos
Simple yet powerful daily practices to calm your mind, reset your emotions, and shift your inner dialogue in real-time.

Techniques to break anxiety spirals and negative thought loops — quickly
You'll learn fast-acting tools to interrupt intrusive thoughts and regain your focus and sense of peace, often within minutes.

How to use imagination, belief, and self-discipline to reshape your reality
Tap into the same inner resources Olympic athletes and high performers use to shift identity, build confidence, and achieve personal breakthroughs.
A Practical Self-Help Guide
This Book is For You If...
You feel stuck, hopeless, or emotionally exhausted
You’ve spent years chasing relief, but never found true healing
You’re open to trying a new way — even if it’s unconventional
You want more than inspiration — you want actionable steps and real results
You’ve always sensed you were meant for more than just surviving
Book Reviews
Advance Reader Reviews
Early readers are calling Depression is NOT Your Destiny “the guide I didn’t know I needed” and “bold, practical, and deeply human.”
This book isn’t just hope—it’s a roadmap to real, lasting emotional freedom.
In a world where conversations about mental health are often cloaked in stigma and silence, Brett’s book arrives as a much-needed playbook for hope. Written by a man who not only faced the depths of suicidal depression but also found his way through it, this brief yet powerful book distills lived experience into clear, practical guidance.
What makes this book stand out is its accessibility. Rather than drowning readers in theory or jargon, the author offers an easy-to-read roadmap for healing—one that feels more like a compassionate conversation with a trusted friend than a lecture. Each section is concise, actionable, and rooted in authenticity. The brevity of the book is one of its greatest strengths: it respects the reality that someone in deep pain may not have the energy or focus for a long, complicated read.
What I loved most is how personal and real Brett’s story is. He doesn’t write from a distant, clinical perspective. He’s lived it the crushing weight of depression, anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts and he found his way through. That makes every chapter feel genuine and grounded. The book is laid out like a playbook, which makes it incredibly practical. Each chapter combines insights with exercises you can actually do, so it’s not just “theory.” The steps are simple but powerful, like reframing negative thoughts, setting intentions, and focusing on what you can control. I especially appreciated the emphasis on small, daily wins because when you’re struggling, that’s often all you can manage, and Brett reminds you that it’s enough to keep moving forward. What sets this apart from other mental health books is the balance between science, spirituality, and lived experience. He explains the “why” behind each practice, so you understand what’s happening in your brain and why these exercises work. That clarity builds trust in the process. If you’re in a dark place, this book meets you there with compassion, but it doesn’t let you stay stuck. It’s hopeful without being fluffy, encouraging without being overwhelming. And if you’re supporting someone who’s struggling, it gives you language and perspective to better understand what they’re going through. Brett’s message is simple but powerful your depression is not who you are, and healing is possible. This book shows you how.
I had the privilege of watching Brett walk through some of the darkest moments of his life, and I’ll never forget telling him, “You’re not going to kill yourself—you’re going to get through this and one day help other people.” I NEVER DOUBTED IT FOR A SECOND; FROM MY MOUTH TO GOD’S EARS!!
To see that moment of hope now turn into something that inspires others is absolutely incredible.
Depression is NOT Your Destiny is more than just a book—it’s living proof that no matter how deep the darkness feels, there is always light on the other side. Brett’s story is raw, real, and filled with hope for anyone who feels stuck or lost. This book is a reminder that healing and transformation are possible, and that your pain can one day become your purpose.
Ready to break free from the grip of depression and anxiety? Brett Coleman's "Depression is NOT Your Destiny" provides a practical, step-by-step playbook to help you do just that. Learn to reshape your mindset, understand the "how" and "why" behind effective strategies, and take concrete steps towards emotional freedom. Coleman's empowering message is clear: healing is possible, and it starts now.
The Story of Author BretT Coleman
From Struggling to Sharing
Brett Coleman built the mental health awareness platform BFKNBOLD as someone who has battled depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, knowing the hell of suffering in silence. He also knows the courage it takes to speak up, ask for help, and fight to live.
Brett’s mission is simple: to help others do what he had to learn to do—be bold enough to reclaim your life.
His raw honesty and fearless self-awareness sparked a platform that now helps others do the same.
Brett’s debut self-help book, “Depression is NOT Your Destiny: A Practical and Proven Step-by-Step Guide to Experience a Life of Emotional Freedom — NOW!”, is a raw, practical guide to rewriting your mental health story.
This isn’t just his healing journey. It’s a roadmap for yours.
Break the Stigma. Be Bold. Be You.
BFKNBOLD PODCAST
Raw Conversations. Real People. Bold Healing.
Get ready for unfiltered conversations about mental health, mindset, self-worth, trauma, growth, and resilience. Hosted by Brett Coleman, author of Depression is Not Your Destiny, the BFKNBOLD podcast brings together survivors, experts, and truth-tellers who know what it means to struggle—and rise.
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